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“The girls [whom the Times reporter] interviewed cited wholesome-seeming celebrities as their favorites. . . Is it possible that today’s teens have seen enough to inoculate them against the pressures of their teenage years?”
--Stephanie Rosenbloom, "Grade-School Girls, Grown-up Gossip," New York Times, May 27, 2007
Who Do You Want to Attract?
Submitted by Jourdan on Thu, 10/25/2007 - 12:51I've been studying relationship dynamics for 3 years now and it's Critical that girls understand guys. If you 'market' yourself as a 'hottie' it's like waving a red flag in front of a bull. You will have highly confident and socially aggressive guys aproaching and running their games on you. They are manipulative and will treat you with disrespect or abandonment after they get what their after. On the other hand; if you show self-respect and dress demurely, you won't be regarded as a 'conquest', you'll be regarded as a 'keeper'. The guys demonstrating interest in you will see you as a long-term prospect and will be as interested in emotional bonding with you as much or more then physical bonding. These kinds of guys are more mature, goal-oriented and have far better long-term aspirations and aquisitions then guys that live to seduce and score women. I hope this helps; I applaud the author of this wonderful work. JGM